Allowing yourself to become wrapped up in the words of others is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. If you aren't careful you can end up carrying those words for the rest of you life and depending on the content they can help make or break you....
If you should come across a group of words designed to break you, and you find yourself hating the person who placed those words together forgive them although they may be undeserving, and forgive yourself for feeling hatred toward the person who is clearly unworthy of your time and energy, and last but not least pray for them for God alone can change their heart